To Clear Things Up!

Apparently, I have a crush on my Brother In Law. 

Bahahahaha, I am officially Rolling on the FLOOR laughing!

 (Not that I need to justify my texts or my actions) But for the record, I cleaned out the sink because two week old dishes were stinking the kitchen up. I know they were 2 weeks old because he told me. He also stated that she hasn't done dishes in over a month that he had done them 2 weeks prior before these stacked up. There were stained wine glasses, stuck on cheese, and rubberized BBQ sauce. (Didn't know BBQ rubberized, it was pretty gross.) Not to mention the dishwasher was full of MORE dirty dishes. It was obvious he needed help. He did not ask for help, I just did it. I gathered all the clothes since my NEPHEW did not have clean clothes and began to catch up laundry. My Brother In Law was very grateful for my SEVEN HOURS I spent catching up laundry. My nephew was surprised to find he had his favorite (clean) BumbleBee Transformer Shirt to wear to school. That made my day. By NO means did I catch up the dishes or laundry because I have the so called hots for him or have a crush on him.

Now for the texts, the brother in law and I had been talking about his situation and because of all the stress I told him my HUSBAND (his brother) and I were going to get in our hot tub and he was welcome to come over. I had told him this at the beginning of the week (face to face) and that evening I sent a text telling him we were getting in the hot tub. Every night when we got in I text him to ask if he wanted to get in. Notice that "WE"? I would never cheat on my husband.

My husband is my best friend and my WORLD! I love him with every fiber of my being and could never sit in a hot tub with another man alone without my husband by my side. Needless to say IT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN. She is delusional. I have never spoke to another man without divulging all details of our conversation. Yes, I will admit I still talk with my exes but Josh KNOWS when I do it and in fact he has met everyone of them but there's one I do not speak to. Every man I meet and talk to Josh knows about. You catching my drift here. I tell him everything. He trusts me and I trust him I love him.  I take care of OUR house and do the best of my abilities to help take care of the land. I cook, I clean, I scrub, I vacuum, I do laundry every Tuesday, I bathe one of our dogs, I try to load the dishwasher when needed, I do everything in my power to take care of OUR household. Not because he asked me to but because I WANT to. I feel like this something I can give back to Josh since he tends to work very hard for the things we have. And yet, I still work part time and I did the same when I was going to school full-time and occasionally worked full-time as well.

 Get over yourself. Thanks.